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Rayann  Gordon's avatar

I also LOVE sharing resources and I'm a spiritual abuse researcher in academia. I think a really accessible one is Holy Hurt by Hillary McBride. She has a podcast and a book of it. I write about it occasionally in my newsletter speaking to the pattern of spiritual abuse in general across diverse spiritual traditions. I also sometimes include earth based perspectives for healing.

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Chelsey Crouch's avatar

I have heard of that one but havent had a chance to read it!

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Rayann  Gordon's avatar

Her voice is really lovely, so I have the book, but kept going back to the podcast. She takes a really wide view of spiritual abuse and brings in trauma research.

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Aaron Hann's avatar

This is a great and helpful list, Chelsey, thanks for putting this together and sharing it. I have my own running list of resources, and you’ve helped me add a few more! I was at a spiritual abuse conference this past weekend where we had a table of books for people to browse, and I’m encouraged to see this list grow. Here are some from that table which you might consider as well:

-Spiritual Abuse Recovery Workbook (Karen Roudkovski’s companion to her first book)

-The Hope in Our Scars by Aimee Byrd

-The Lord is My Courage by K.J. Ramsey

-Remember My Affliction by Kimrey Dillon

-Healing from Hidden Abuse by Shannon Thomas

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Chelsey Crouch's avatar

Thank you so much, Aaron! I'll check these out.

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Mary Dekkinga's avatar

"The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse" helped me to realize that I wasn't crazy and probably saved my life. I will be looking for these other resources you have recommended. Thank you, Chelsey!

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Chelsey Crouch's avatar

Wow, what a recommendation. I’m sorry you have experienced that level of harm, but I’m so glad you found a way out. I definitely want to get to that one—I hope you find some of the other resources I mentioned helpful as well.

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